places, people, ideas, trends in Aruba

Since this blog is about people too…I was browsing today through my dairy, and when I was in Italy I read this book on how to improve relationships and I wrote somethings. This was in 2002, back there use of blogs where unexisting I guess, so now Im able to share this with you. I know that for sure it will help you, after all, we deal with people everyday!

• Show an sincere interest, believe people will know when it’s not real or sincere.
• a smile has a powerful outcome (eventhough nobody is watching, like when you are talking on the phone)
• remember peoples name, it’s a powerful magic, because it’s one owns property…I like when people call me by my name, specially because it’s a difficult one!
• if you want to be interesting, you have to show that you are interesting
• listen listen and listen, learn to listen instead of talking
• the road to peoples heart is to talk about the things they like or are passionate about
• make others feel important and special
• admit your mistakes and faults, we are humans, meaning we are not perfect!!

Let us be better people!!